The struggle is real! Being single, particularly when getting older is not fun at all.  If you have been single for a long time you could be beginning to wonder if it is ever going to happen for you.  Watching everyone else find and be in fulfilling and loving relationships while you are continually alone and yearning for love can be literally heartbreaking.  You start to second guess yourself and wonder “what is wrong with me”?  Alternatively, you might not have been single for a long time but find yourself constantly ‘picking the wrong one’ and never having relationships that last – and again you are left wondering “what is wrong with me”? The good news is that there is NOTHING wrong with you!  There are just a couple of things that are getting in the way and stopping you from finding ‘The One’.  You just need to find out what they are.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but I have some statistics that I want to share with you.  The current marriage rate is around 51% – which means that out of 100 couples 51 of them end up getting married.  The current divorce rate sits between 40-50% – so out of those 51 couples who have married, about 20-25 of them end up getting divorced.  And then to make it even worse, the break up rate of common law relationships (couples that live together without being married) is over 80%!  Looking at those statistics it reveals that out of every 100 couples only 36-41 of them survive.  That means at least 60% of all couples will break up at some stage.  (And I am not even going to mention the amount of people still in relationships but are totally unhappy in them!)  Now I don’t personally like those odds…. do you?  But that’s ok as you don’t have to end up like one of those statistics.  I believe that because of the way that we are all currently dating and the way we are beginning our relationships, that most relationships are ‘doomed’ from the start.  But this does not have to be what happens to you.

The great news is that we can fix this!  It doesn’t have to be this way.  You can find amazing long-lasting love.  However, we have to face the facts, the current way we are dating is not working.  If it was, then you would be in a wonderful relationship right now!  So how do you fix it?  Well the first thing you need to do is to find out what is personally holding you back from finding and maintaining love.  Real love.  The type of love that you have been yearning for.  The reasons you have been giving yourself why you are still single are simply not true.  Unfortunately, you are not consciously aware of the real reasons – you just simply need some help to uncover them so that you can clear the path leading to the love of your life.  The next step is to date in a very conscious way so that you can make sure that the person that you are dating is in fact ‘The One’.  It is way too easy to get swept up in romantic feelings and end up in a relationship that will eventually end because they were the wrong person for you to begin with.  I am here to help you do this.  It is totally possible for you to find true and long-lasting love.  You just need to be shown how!